I living together with my husband's sister in Hong Kong but she doesn't want to speak Hong Kong local language to me, she even can't speaking English, in her simple English dictionary she use "this one" to represent "you" / "that one"and other more, many time make me confuse. If I'm in rush time I'll be mad by spending time to understanding her. I'd thinking learning her and my husband's family language-Pashto or Urdu/Hindi, but I'm feeling difficult about learning kind like those differences far away from my basic language known, especial that I have nothing known about Arabic words.
I have a reason to refuse learning Pashto: we are all living in Hong Kong here useful languages are Cantonese and English. you from Pakistan come Hong Kong living in Hong Kong and have Hong Kong ID card, Hong Kong government offer you much benefit, I think if you like stay Hong Kong you should learning here's common language then for respect my husband's family of cause I'll study your village's language. Sister you older than me 3 years, you didn't show me your respect for a sister in law with different culture background then how should I respect you how much? I never 干涉你的饮食起居和宗教信仰，but HERE Hong Kong's food culture always have pork you early already know this, youuse your time to do pray I use my time to use computer study or rest what's the problem? Don't judge me sleeping long time, my brain just need rest to learning new work skill, cope new life, care my newborn baby … I want to ask you: when you at home speaking aloud have you thinking that there somebody resting! In night time, your children get on bed trying sleep but you talking in telephone, daytime me sleeping but can hear you talking phone long time sometimes you make loud that I don't really fall in sleep, sometimes you working in kitchen noisy wake me up, you often talking phone at same time that your one hand doing cooking so I can hear that loud sound every time you put 锅盖-铿铿锵锵. See now you stay here, I want to ask this who should learning a new culture?
I'm a 好奇 person, 你在我身边讲你家乡的语言我努力用耳朵用心在听，so please taking with me directly talk main point even you talking phone with another I hope you say simple and easy to quickly finish talking, don't you never think your side people need to quiet? I hope I won't be a woman like u and your female friend, born that much children how to share love for… and then you even doesn't know to use self home's Cable TV, in computer you only know go YouTube play that 宗教的东西或是你家乡语言的歌曲，也不考虑别人喜不喜欢，就你的儿女似乎也不喜欢。
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